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I’m always reading the latest research on positive psychology, neuroscience, and neurodiversity, and I love sharing these resources with my community, via my newsletter and blog.
Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: Practical Advice for Overwhelmed Moms with ADHD
When you’re a mom with ADHD, parenting can be even harder, as this article, "Never Good Enough: The Emotional Toll of Motherhood," explains. So forget super mom! All you have to be is super You.
Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: Is Your Child a Phone Addict?
The article "Is Your Child a Phone Addict?" from The New York Times demonstrates how parents can have difficulty distinguishing phone abuse from appropriate use.I recommend the apps Moment and Forest so that you become aware of your habits and use your phone mindfully. Working with a coach like Mind Coach NOLA can also help you or your family members!
Recommended Watching From Mind Coach NOLA: You Are Never Getting Your Pencil Back
Yesterday, I received an Instagram message from @Mrs.SuperDuper, a.k.a. Coach Rachel Sirwatka, who shared with me her video, "You Are Never Getting Your Pencil Back." And I couldn't wait to share it with you! Coach Rachel is a science teacher who makes videos (like this one) for her students. Not only is she hilarious and spunky, she has the right idea about how magical an ADD or ADHD diagnosis is.
Mind Coach NOLA on Why Parents Need a Monthly Meet-Up
I remember when I got the official diagnosis that my son has ADHD. His teachers had been patient and wonderful, as were the learning specialist and the counselor at his school. I already knew it was coming but my husband was in denial and a small part of me just wanted it all to go away. “Maybe it’s just a phase that he will outgrow,” I told myself. And when the psychologist explained to us he was a “classic textbook case,” I was both relieved and devastated.
Mind Coach NOLA on the Power of Unsubscribing: Part 2
Following along with Part 1 of this series, we're looking at "the Power of Unsubscribing." Today, let's think about another approach: "unsubscribing" from the powerful siren song of your phone.
Mind Coach NOLA on "Micro-Progress"
I’d never heard the term “micro-progress” but, since reading Time Herrera's article "Micro-Progress and the Magic of Just Getting Started" in the New York Times, I have used the term and recommended it to my clients. It’s a magic trick to get started a project or task that you just can’t or won’t start. When faced with an activity that looms large, try this trick:
Mind Coach NOLA on the Power of Unsubscribing: Part 1
A few mornings ago, I met a friend for a sunrise run, hoping to catch a glimpse of the lunar eclipse. Halfway through mile two, she told me one of her dirty secrets: She had over 16,000 emails in her inbox.
Recommended Reading From Mind Coach NOLA: Your Teen's Executive Function Skills
ADDitude Magazine's article "10 Ways to Improve Your Teen's Executive Function Skills" is a great place to start, but don’t assume all teens naturally possess executive function skills. While they want mastery and control of their own lives, we also want to foster independence safely.
Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: The Strategy Behind a Coach
"Right Goal, Wrong Strategy: 11 New Treatment Ideas" offers a quick slide show with ideas to help you become more productive. My faves: find a cheerleader, spark interest, change the format, creative competition and find an accountability partner.
Mind Coach NOLA on Making Exercise a Habit
Most of my clients call me when they are stuck because of procrastination, lack of motivation and inability to follow through. We work on a variety of skills, like setting goals, planning, and prioritizing. After a week or two, the subject of exercise comes around. “I really should, but I just don’t have time.” “I just don’t like it.” “I haven’t been able to stick with it.”
Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: The ADHD Brain
"6 Things You Didn't Know about the ADHD Brain" at ADDitude Magazine is an interesting article on how stimulants work for or against the ADHD brain. This is a clear explanation of the latest research on why it’s hard to get motivated and stay motivated, but also how emotions cannot be regulated automatically at all times. Surprisingly, it doesn’t all take place in the prefrontal cortex. Read on... the mystery unfolds.
Mind Coach NOLA on Freedom from Digital Addiction
I love digital devices as much as the next person. Here I am with my Apple Watch, which helps me track my runs and stay on top of my busy schedule. But I also understand how addictive these helpful devices can be, and I'm dedicated to helping clients block those distractions. I just read an article in the New York Times called "It's Time For Apple to Build a Less Addictive iPhone," by Farhad Majoo, who suggests that Apple should develop and sell a less addictive smartphone.
Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: Benefits of ADHD
The glass is indeed half full! The article "Benefits (Yes, Benefits!) of Having ADHD," from The Hallowell Center in New York City, presents a positive way to look at ADHD. Check out the awesomeness of these mirror traits! We are creative, persistent, energetic and passionate. What’s not to love?
Mind Coach NOLA On Motivating Teens with ADHD: Part 3
“He doesn’t care.” “He’s not living up to his potential.” “He’ll never amount to anything.” What is really going on? To continue in our series (here's Part 1 and Part 2) on parenting teens with ADHD, the article and video "Why Teens Stop Trying," at ADDitude Magazine, is a short explanation of why your teen may have quit trying.
Mind Coach NOLA on Motivating Teens with ADHD: Part 2
In Part 1 of this series, we looked at motivational problems for teens with ADHD.
So as a parent, what can you do?
Mind Coach NOLA on Motivating Teens with ADHD: Part 1
“My son quit trying in school because his masculinity is threatened? What?”
I know. I didn’t quite understand it either the first time I heard it. But behind all that bluster is a lot of insecurity and an enormous fear of failure. Read on to get the full picture
Mind Coach NOLA on Phubbing
Have you heard of phubbing? It's a recently coined term—a combination of "phone" and "snubbing"—that describes the act of turning your attention to your phone in the presence of others. "Phubbing" is always a bad idea, but, like slot machines in a casino, our phones are designed to attract our attention.
Recommended Reading From Mind Coach NOLA: Preparing For Family Visits During The Holidays
The holidays are hectic enough, but when it comes to the members of your family diagnosed with ADHD, the holidays can feel incredibly overwhelming. And maybe not all of your family gets it. The article "Stop Unsolicited Advice From Family In Its Tracks," by Carol Brady at ADDitude Magazine, has some great tips on how to prepare your extended family, your immediate family, your child, and yourself for holiday visits.
Recommended Watching from Mind Coach NOLA: Terrible Presents for People with ADHD
The holidays are almost here! Are you prepared? Jessica at How to ADHD has some funny, helpful advice on what not to get people with ADHD this holiday season.
Mind Coach NOLA on Mindful Movement
When you've been sitting for too long studying for the exam or working on that final paper, try two minutes of mindful movement. By aligning your body and your mind with breath and movement, you can focus even more. Watch this short video by Cara Bradley and Mindful.org for a two-minute break that will get your blood flowing and your brain working.