Recommended Reading from Mind Coach NOLA: Goal-Setting Skills
Here are some handy tips for parents and teachers on helping kids set realistic goals, and how to encourage and praise effort and progress, with the end goal of ultimately achievement. My favorite is: Set a family goal that everyone can contribute to.
I love holding family meetings! Having everyone involved in the process ensures that each person is on board, responsible and accountable. And together you can decide on the reward, be it intrinsic or extrinsic. Love it!